What Hug?

 

See him hug a lady in store Jan 2, 2022

When I come back down aisle 10 sec later lady is gone

I ask who was that?

Him; um I can’t remember her name

Me: so you hugged someone that you don’t even know the name of? 

Him: she’s from the baseball team!

Me: whose parent? I don’t know her and I’m at every game

Him:

I can’t remember the kid. I just know her name is Connie

What baseball team?

Him: Jesus Christ I don’t know which team. From Byers.

Me:I don’t  know a Connie. And we never played in Byers. 

Him well she’s a friend of shayna. 

How do you know a friend of shaynas? And I thought you didn’t know her name but now it’s Connie?

Him Connie Cathy something like that. I haven’t seen her in years

So u don’t know her name or who she is but her names Connie from Byers and she’s a friend of shayna?

Him: well I don’t know if she’s shaynas friend but she’s always hanging around with her at king supers

So u don’t know her but hugged her?

I didn’t hug her she hugged me. Jesus here we go again. 

Me: That is deflecting and not answering appropriately because you do not have the communication skills to do so.

I’m   just saying I would know who someone was that I was hugging. And you would ask if I hugged some Man you didn’t know.

Him well I’m not like you I’m always hugging people and the moms always are that way with me so I hug them

So you were hugging her?

Him Jesus Christ your a psycho I don’t see why you’re getting so mad about it

I’m not mad at all just curious. And keeping track as you rewrite the rules so I know what they are. And what our relationship is. 

Him: And I’m doing everything to makes it work I deleted the dating apps and I’m not cheating

Me: That was a couple days ago(chuckling) when you said that months ago.

Him: I said I’d delete the apps not close my accts

Me: And you had tagged less than a week ago

These conversations are becoming a bit like watching a bug under a microscope. Also forgot to mention that not only did he text a gal the week of 12/15 but he went by her mom’s house twice looking for her. I saw the messages. She’s quite the ugly girl and lives with her mom..must be quite the catch. January 16 2022 I

In his room after having sex. We talk and hit on some touchy subjects but I tell him I’m really liking the chill convo as it actually was a good convo. I don’t know where we are going but this is good. Seemed like connecting. Then he tells me that it seems like I’m saying we won’t have sex for months - when we just got done having sex for christs sake and that I’m looking for other guys - when I said the opposite. Then he said “well you can leave now.  cuz you’re bumming me out”. Dick. I thought we were getting somewhere- stoooopid. 

2 days later. Our Daughter was going to griz rose. Told her next time I would go with her as she has a car full this one. He asks me  4 times so you going with? 4x I answer not this time maybe next time. The fourth time I finally asked why he asked the same question 4x. He said so “I guess I can go to the bar alone then?” Wtf?! Me: “ i wouldn’t be going alone I’d be going with my daughter and her friends. But if you wanna fucking go to a bar alone fkn go - don’t base what you do on what you think im doing” fkn ridiculous bs-

How about that sounds fun - girls night with your daughter?! Oh no that would be normal. As if I’d have a prob if he was going somewhere on a Sunday night with our son.

When I got home from an errand we had a back n forth about me going to my room- he’s been in his room the entire afternoon! Then he said I didn’t kiss him good night - it’s not even 7pm I answered I’m not going to bed I’m going to my room. He didn’t kiss me goodnight when he went to his room at like 3pm and I didn’t get all bent about it. He reaches for reasons to be mad so he can validate his cheating.

Smh. Then I stated that I I wasn’t happy about his comment about me going with my girl and that it was inappropriate. He said I was going to look for dates. I said I am the one that has a history of actually going where I say and he is the one who lies and goes on dates. He replied that the girls wouldn’t say if I did something. I told him he was unable to communicate about what he said in a mature manner so I would leave it - he responded “ go back on your fkn phone” . Yep immature

Seriously? Same night. I get up brush my teeth and turn off my light. It’s 1030. A couple min later he knocks and says don’t you want a kiss good night? Whatever. Peacekeeping I get up open door and give him a kiss and he says “it’s not like your light wasn’t just on”. Wtf? I’ve no idea how he took me turning off my light personally when I didn’t know he was coming to my closed door and I had already got in bed? I was silent a few seconds as he walked away then I was like wtf is wrong with you and closed my door