The last straw

 2/17/23

Flashback to July 6 2021:Today he came up with a story that can only be projection…claiming I made a TikTok about “missing someone” & “ missing texting” someone today- all of which is false  1) I haven’t made a TikTok in three days 2) I’m not missing anyone 3) not texting anyone. He harassed me all day sending 25 rude texts with false accusations insults and attacks (30 texts altogether). I replied blandly to some with no defense or offense and some simple non inflammatory emojis. I responded with a few one sentence texts and 2 emojis ignoring the rest of the craziness. When I got home I said hi to him in the living room and went straight to my room locking the door-I knew abuse was coming in person after an entire day of abusive texts. He yelled “open the fucking door”and then broke the door in breaking the entire frame . I told him to please leave my room. He said he had every right to be in the room whether I wanted him to be or not. Again I Asked him to leave. He didn’t so I retreated to the bathroom but before I could shut door he forced his way in slamming my arm with the door and  jamming his foot and hand in the door jamb to keep it open. I slid past him quickly and went out to kitchen he followed calling me a bitch and telling me I’d “better talk to him”. I went back to my bedroom and tried to shut door before he got there (this was run and chase by this time)and he put his arm and foot in as I closed it. I ran past him and went to spare bath.l and locked that door successfully. All this time I had repeatedly said “please leave me alone”. He said “fine you don’t want to talk to me we’ll play this game. I’m calling the cops and you’re going to jail”. He really thought I was going to jail for not talking to him? And it was all on video?! Him chasing me and breaking doors?! He underestimated the cops too-they saw the broken door. They wanted to take him to jail. Sadly our kids had showed up by this time and begged me not to say the word that would get him taken to jail -intimidated. For them I didn’t. I also regret it because to this day I get the impression they blame me. As if I called the cops. He tried to use the law to punish me and it backfired on him. With the cops anyways. Seems he got a show for the kids. He also pulled the last straw. And the day I truly started planning.