Stop the Weird

The amount of just weird reactiveness that doesn't abate is exhausting. I can't wrap my head around most of it. Again this morning he snuck into my bathroom - tiptoeing. Normally he stomps all over the house when getting ready for work with not a care for any of my sleep. I don't say anything though. Later when my daughter goes into the other bathroom he again goes through my room into my bathroom. He closes the door which is a flag since he would normally leave it open. He left the other bathroom door open while peeing when my girl wasn't home which opens to the hall. And my bathroom is through my room so there's another door so why close the bathroom door in that situation? Oh because he wasn't peeing. Again I can hear peeing -especially a man - in my bathroom. There's a 2" gap under my door right next to the toilet. And again it was like 15 seconds. Because he was putting the grinder he's using for cocaine back. He said he was out the night before...but just like before he's not. His latest bad habit I guess. I should mention that when he says good night and goes to bed if I stay up he comes back out at least 3 times...so quietly. Then he instantly looks around the corner to see if I'm on my phone. Again I don't say anything about it though. Just some more crazy in his repertoire. So today it was small weirdnesses. We went down to see our son to take him a car to borrow. Stopped to get gas. It was a pricey gas station and when we got out I said "dang we should have got gas at Watkins" (because it was cheaper and we had gone by it yesterday). This set him off for reasons that must have been made up in his mind. He got all insulted and started saying "oh yeah like its all my fkn fault we didn't get gas" and ranted a few more sentences. Until I  I point blank asked what his problem is. I had just said we should of got gas. Was only observing it was pricey. And that I had just thought of it because I hadn't thought of it when we went by Watkins! He inferred a whole insult out of a simple observation of a thought. So glad we were in separate cars. My daughter hates these interactions so with her there I am even more apt to let it slide which is again the choice I made. The day went by ok. Later at my sons we were getting ready to leave and somehow seeing his new apartment came up. I have been there before. My husband went one other time to get a couch. So I've seen the place minus one couch. It was the first time his sister had been there though. Then he says I hadn't seen it and my girl and I point out I had seen it. And he does the snotty head shake with finger quotes and says "well I guess you've 'seen' it then". My son shook his head and looked funny annoyed and my daughter told him to shut up.

stupid weird