Tuesday, June 15, 2021

Travel chronicle

 So we were sitting on the plane waiting to take off. It’s frontier. There’s no wifi on the plane. No reachable wifi. I’m on my phone on regular cell service when he says something about his mobile hotspot. I took out my headphone and asked what about it? He said he couldn’t connect to the mobile hotspot for wifi. I responded that there isn’t any wifi. He got pissed and said that’s not what he was saying and he needed the hotspot to download something and cell service was too slow. Again I said there’s no wifi - Frontier doesn’t have wifi. Then he got really pissed and said you can’t fucking understand so never fucking mind. Then he put his headphone in. I said I don’t understand why that makes you so mad. It seems he thought connecting to a mobile hotspot in a place with no wifi somehow converted cell service into wifi. And I’ve no idea how to avoid being berated when it’s his own confusion and anything I say is taken as me being stupid. I also wanted the aisle seat - I always get the middle. He got pissy about that too saying he needed it cuz his legs are longer. I said oh I didn’t realize you put your legs out in the aisle I didn’t think of that and said fine he could have the aisle seat. I wasn’t that happy since I always get middle but I just wanted to be done so I was a bit short .He said no he doesn’t put his legs out but the aisle seat still has more leg room. Um the seats are exactly the same distance from the seats in front of you. Of course I didn’t say that - because it would infuriate him and invite verbal abuse. Then he said well we know who the problem is now. And since my daughter was being moody she backed that up saying yeah it’s her. (Me). I asked how me saying he could have the aisle seat was being a problem but there was no answer for that. He is also on hookup dating sites as always. In the interest of honesty and not being a hypocrite I told him I planned to put my profile up. He had a fit. It went into a whole diversion insult verbal fest on his side. I didn’t get even slightly emotional but I did converse which I shouldn’t have done. In the end he was so “sorry” and isn’t on the sites - but at first he admitted it said it was from long ago. Um I have proof he checks every day. Along with checking in with one of his old hookups.

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