Broken Promises

After taking the time to set up his potential absence yesterday my husband did not go our after all. He mentioned it..and mentioned "no one was texting him back" .  Since he only has one sorta buddy from work who is our sons age I can only imagine whose text he was waiting on. We went together to pick up a stove..and as usual the entire ride in the vehicle involved him going on and on about how he is the best at his job and how he wants something easier and how he knows why they give him the most difficult work - because hes the only one that can do it. This goes hand in hand with him going on about what great shape hes in and how everyone thinks hes much younger. I nodded and agreed - thats the peaceful path for us and one I am always trying to achieve. Once during the ride he was talking and I turned my head towards him. He immediately accused me of giving him a dirty look. I had sunglasses on and I actually didnt look directly at him. But in his own mind I suppose he thought I was. And he assumed it was a dirty look because at some shallow level he knows what he is. Now I needed to get picked up at 6pm tonite and he says hes not sure he'll be available then and might be out. He's not a shopper, stores mostly close on Sunday by then...so again who knows. I asked him what time he was going and he  said " i dont know she hasnt texted me back" he didn't elaborate and I didn't ask. I wonder if he thought I would? Or are these just passive aggressive threats? How much more does he really need to hurt me?