Daily Grind

Its well published that porn addicts and porn itself objectifies women. My husband is obsessed with porn. Obsessed with other women. If we are out he leers at women. He initiates conversation with strange women frequently and without me. The truth of this is exemplified by my husbands treatment of me. When we are in bed he initiates sex with stroking or 'grinding' on me. No words. No affection. ....if I allow it to progress sex follows...not at any satisfaction for me...only him. He often can't achieve ejaculation with intercourse and has to be finished by hand. If I respond by stroking him back on the chest or kissing him he immediately stops touching me, rolls onto his back, and lays there. If I am affectionate longer than 30 seconds his inattention is followed by a request to "do him" or pull on his cock. Lately I have begun to just stop as well...and then...nothing. I have shared my desire for mutual sex and my need to feel  and be loved to have sex...but no sign that he considers my desire. Nor does he ask when this happens...we both just roll over and go to sleep. Mutual sex involves each other...two people. I think my husband prefers sex that involves just him. In the morning he just gets up and masturbates. This is how porn affects your thinking...and your wife.