Silent treatment

I'm being granted the flip side of narc abuse. Doing nothing grants me some form of abuse..in this case the silent treatment. When leaving for my daughters softball my husband wasn't ready. Though we had told him what time. He said he would need to change..and you can always tack on 10+ for him to get stoned also. I said we wanted to be on time and would he be ready so he said "just fucking go". My daughter told him it was at a highschool we've played at before and we left. I also asked her and she said it was there..but she hadn't actually checked so when we got there we realized it was at another field. I told her immediately to text her dad and she said she already did then we drove to the other location. Some time later my husband called and I told him Rio texted him the address before he left. He checked then yelled at me because of where it was then hung up. Later he arrived at the game..I didn't even know he was there and got up to get something and there he was behind the bleachers. I said "oh there you are. I didn't know you were here". He's says "I've been here" in a sour tone.H never spoke to me again. Didn't come sit by me. Left just before the end of the game without saying anything. When I got home he ignored me and went to his room. The anger is easy to see bubbling under the surface. I've no idea what imagined thing he's decided I've done for him to achieve anger. Though I know it's to do with the location change. I actually wasn't happy with my daughter's inattention to detail and told her so.. put me in the same position as my husband. So why's he mad at me? Well who knows but silence is a fair bit better than having something tossed painfully into my face. But still leaves a bitter taste about sleeping with him several times last week.