Small Talk

On the way home from seeing our son thre was a mildly awkward silence. Things hadnt gone perfectly because I had dared to discuss a matter in which my son had lacked integrity. Since my husband favors this son and it upset my son my husband had stated (during the conversation) that I really fucking piss him off. So while we wern't arguing the atmosphere wasn't entirely comfortable. At about an hour passed when my husband asked "you seem in thought. What are you thinking about?" Nothing I told him. He persisted asking me a couple more times. Finally I replied that I was thinking about the conversation with my son and that while I didn't mean to upset him and was sorry I had it also was necessary to say. And that I didn't think it necessary fir him (my husband) to have reacted that way. Hard to depict in writing but his words had been delivered with gritted teeth and he bulled up towards me with clenched fists. Anyways my answer elicited a response I am usually beware of...the why do you have to be such a bitch.. why can't we have a normal talk about the weather...or how was your day. I responded that I misunderstood..I thought when he asked what I was thinking about he actually meant just that...apparently it really meant I was supposed to make small talk. But at least it opened his door to telling me what a bitch I am.
As another interesting note...I had asked for a quote for some work on facebook. In private messaging I told the guy his price was too high. So he posted on FB how I was a mean and nasty person. Another man commented that I sounded like a cunt. The inappropriate (and very unproffesional) was deleted by admin. I was telling my son about it and my husband was like "you didnt tell me he called you a cunt. " and suggested he woild have done something about it. But it was fact when i said i didnt day anything because you've called me a cunt more than once so why would I think you'd care?