Dating Pains

So over the weekend my daughter was going to an amusement park my husband said he'd prefer that he and I spend time downtown kind of checking it out and walking around it sounded nice and I agreed so we dropped her off at the amusement park and walked over to downtown. I had been enjoying his company and wanted to concentrate on that and him I always think if I'm gonna bear through this life of abuse I can do what I can to make it more bearable and may it can get better. We checked out some of the shops I suggested we get a drink somewhere but he wasn't all that enthused about that idea then I said well we could go to a movie since we were right by movie theater they didn't really go for that idea either. Didn't seem to want to suggest a meal anywhere. It got to the point where I wasn't even really sure why he suggested going downtown in the first place after being there for about an hour the pain started... back pain. his calves were hurting and he lost his sunglasses so the sun was horrible in fact all he did was complain for the entire rest of the day which encompassed several hours of a very limited conversation regarding how much pain he was in. now I know I'm complaining rather than telling a story about abuse but it's kind of an all-encompassing personality disorder indicative of all the underlying problems that come about in our marriage I mean he want a date night but who wants to date someone who talks about nothing but pain.